June is here… and now Summer is officially here as well! Are you and your family traveling? As a family of 5 we often have to start packing many days in advance. If your family is anything like mine.. packing can feel like an Olympic sport. The problem with our packing is it is usually last minute… like right before we are leaving I am still packing lol!

I know you are probably thinking right now… why the heck is this woman giving me tips when she is a last minute packer… well the reason I am doing it is I have a really great way of packing and I usually do not miss a thing!  I say usually because the first time in about 2 years I forgot shorts for myself on our last trip to VA.

We are leaving this week for Beaufort SC.. our future retirement home. I can not wait to get back to Beaufort. It is so slow and just makes you feel amazing! In the words of my dad… “It makes you feel like you are actually living”. Okay so back to packing…  These are a few of my favorite tips for packing for vacation!

1. Make Lists
I know making lists sounds so elementary but it seriously works. I do not know if you are a computer list maker or a paper list maker. I write everything down on paper. I seriously have lists all over the place. It drives my husband crazy.  I make a detailed list for everyone traveling. I read the lists off to my kids and then take my husband’s list and mine to our room. These also go into the suitcases so that on our way home we make sure that everything makes it’s way home.

2. Fold clothes smartly… Work smarter not harder
I am sure you have seen those nifty pictures floating around the internet that show how to fold your clothes…. It seriously works! I mean it! I have been using this style of folding for the last year. I have taught my babies how to do this because it works! It makes insane space and helps with making sure you do not have to have a lot of baggage while traveling. This is a wallet saver because you will not have to pay those pesky overage fees!


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3. Check the Weather…
I know this may sound like a no brainier but really check the weather. Nothing sucks more than getting to your destination and freezing your butt off because you packed for warmer weather. I check the weather about 4 days out and then again the day before we leave. It just helps in case last minute weather changes have occurred and you will be able to adjust.

4. Expect the unexpected!
Expect to bring something special home. It does not happen all the time but it doesn’t hurt to make a little extra room just in case. You will thank me later ( I will be here waiting lol) and it will not stress you out for it.

5. Make arrangements for your 4 legged babies
It is ideal to make sure your 4 legged babies are okay when you leave. There are many things to think about while packing and your pets can often be last minute thoughts. If you are boarding your pets, ask what you are allowed to bring. I usually try to bring their favorite blankets and their toys. It helps them to feel a little home while they may be scared. I also make sure they have their little travel bag with food, leashes, bowls, etc. when we travel as a whole family.


I am not saying here that I am reinventing the wheel here… I am however saying that these tips work for my family. I hope that these tips can help you with the stress that often comes from packing and traveling… let me know your favorite tips!

Until next time…


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It can be hard sometimes when spouses are having to constantly put their career on the back burner. We have to take whatever jobs we can find. Most of the time you are not able to work somewhere with flexibility that is often needed as a military spouse because anything can happen at any moment. We all know that as soon as our military member deploys the washer will break and the car will have a flat tire. I know it has to be a certain law ha ha!  It is so important to find a job and spread the word when we can, when we find something that everyone can benefit from. That is why I wanted to tell you about Verizon!

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I was presented with a great opportunity recently and I just had to share with all my friends who are military spouses! Verizon understands how difficult it can be for military spouses to secure employment and the need for flexibility to care for family and stay connected with loved ones.  Deployments and relocation can make sustaining a career or finding a new job tricky. Verizon wants to help and is honored to support military spouses across the country with employment opportunities, career resources, state of-the-art technology and benefits exclusive to military families.

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Please let’s spread the word so that we can help as many military families be able to enjoy just a little more financial freedom with a rewarding job that understands our not so typical lifestyle.

Until next time,






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This post will NOT be easy. Weight never is. It is almost like you have admitted to yourself that you have a problem. As of today, June 28th 2015, I am embarking on a new journey starting today. I am starting the Atkins low carb diet. While I love and I mean LOVE all bad carbs… I mean that is what we have trained our taste buds to enjoy. Today is day 1 and I am going to tell my weight.

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They say if you put yourself out there you will get the motivation and the accountability that is required to keep pushing forward. I have done Atkins before and it was fantastic! I felt amazing and I pushed forward. I lost 10 lbs in 2 weeks and never once worked out. It was just watching my carb count and ate amazing food.

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Atkins is really a great diet for me and I guess it isn’t so much a diet as it is a way of life. You get to eat healthy fats and filling veggies. I am excited and kinda scared about these next two weeks. When I am stressed out I tend to eat my emotions instead of talking about them and my life is pretty stressful these days. My go to is chocolate and anything fried!

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Yesterday was Sunday and my husband I went to the store to get some last minute things like milk and pool salt. I was nervous but I told my husband that I needed to do this for me and that I was going to start the low carb lifestyle again. In the past when I would tell my husband I was doing this he would try his hardest to sabotage my goal and often succeed. This time was different and he agreed with me and gave  me his support. It is almost lunch time and we will not be home until after 3 pm. My husband and I made a plan for me to eat somewhere that has a salad bar for me to get the lunch that I need.


Sooooo here is my weight as of today June 28th, 2015- 222.8

I have a goal to get under 200 lbs. Even if it is just 199, I will be excited and happy. I know you may be thinking… she did this before why is she having to start over?

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I have done this before and it was kinda hard the first two days then easy peasy. I have to start over simply because I allowed stress to become a crutch for me to enjoy foods that are not good for me. Instead of choosing that salad I would pick the quarter pounder. Instead of fresh fruit, I would choose that ice cream and a strawberries and cream pie. I made poor decisions because I just felt like it was okay to say that stress made me do it.

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Today I am making a change. I have been very sick since February and I am hoping that with a better diet I will be able to overcome this sickness and better manage my symptoms. So all in all this me coming to you and asking that you will help me to be accountable for my diet in the next 2 weeks ( It is the induction phase) and then forward until I reach my goal of under 199. As of now I need to lose 23.8 lbs to reach this goal.

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Thank you for being my support… and if you would like to join this journey with me let’s do it! I would love to have some accountability partners! <3


Until Next Time…..


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That moment that you wake from the shock when you hear that something is not right with your Marine…. The craziness starts to sink in. Our life has been absolutely crazy since August 30th. While in our welcome aboard meeting for Wounded Warriors I was given a packet with information for Boulder Crest Retreat….. This is and was an amazing opportunity and something I was wishing we could do. I took the chance and filled out the application and crossed our fingers. We were approved to stay for 2 days in a beautiful cabin out in the middle of nowhere.

We were giddy (except my love because he is never giddy) and anxious to get to the cabin. When we arrived at the retreat it took my breath away. The well-manicured grounds and breathtaking scenes made us really excited! We arrived at our cabin 1 and I just could not believe that we were able to stay there! This was our home away from home for the next two days. Boulder Crest Retreat is a retreat to help wounded military (active or retired) to enjoy some alone time or family time. It is there to help families to relax and have no worries. This is a free retreat for the military member and their families. They have many activities to be able to enjoy for free or a small cost. They have fishing, archery, and hiking for example. We visited their garden which you are able to pick any fresh organic veggies or herbs that you would like to enjoy.


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Our view from our back porch! So beautiful!

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Walking up to the cabin!

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Cardinals are special to me. It is so awesome we stayed in the cardinal cabin!

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View outside on the back porch! <3

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Beautiful Front Door from inside with an awesome trash can that was electric!

The cabins are absolutely amazing! We had 3 bedrooms. The master bedroom had a king sized bed along with a great bathroom. All the cabins are ADA Compliant. Our second bedroom had a queen size bed and the third bedroom had a bunk bed for our boys to enjoy. We had a full sized kitchen that was stocked with pretty much anything you would need to cook and enjoy your meals. You bring your own food to eat. We had a 52 inch T.V. with cable. We also had a wonderful gas fireplace to enjoy and if you know me… I took advantage of that!

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We were greeted with this amazing gift basket!

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Closer view of basket

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This was our dinning room for the weekend… I love that flag!

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The boys bunk beds for the weekend!

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The kids bathroom and they were in love!

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My daughters room for the weekend!

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I know you are thinking … what is this? It is the coolest bear rug without the bear ha ha!

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This is the Master Bedroom.. very nice King size bed and very relaxing!

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Closet with games, umbrellas, walking sticks, playpen and so much more! They think of everything!

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Closet with games, umbrellas, walking sticks, playpen and so much more! They think of everything!

Our first day there we got there pretty late. We unloaded our things and then went to look at the garden. I wish I could have gone whenit all was ready because I would have enjoyed it all. We were able to drive around Bluemont,VA and the charm of that small city is absolutely amazing.  We ate our dinner and then we went ahead and retired for the night.

Our second day was full of fun fishing and getting a little relaxing. We were given all the fishing gear we would need in order to fish in the pond and release the fishes we caught. We caught 9 fish and our youngest caught the most! That was a relaxing experience and fun for my husband to teach his knowledge of fishing to our babies! We fished for 2 hours and the time just flew by. We went home to make some lunch and then we lounged around. The cabin had games and we used them. Our kids played Monopoly and as a family we played Clue. I won both times we played.


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My kids getting ready to go fishing! They were excited!

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The beautiful waterfall in the middle of the pond! So relaxing to hear it.

We lounged around and watched a few movies and watched the rain fall outside. The mountains just look so majestic when the rain falls upon them. We took the babies out for ice cream at the general store around the corner from the retreat. This general store is what you would expect from a little town. Milk is delivered once a week in glass containers, saddles and different leather works. This was just a beautiful little store with friendly people. They have pretty great ice cream. Just another great memory to add to our wonderful weekend.

I cannot say how grateful I am for the opportunity to relax with my husband, watch him teach our kids new skills and our family was able to come together and grow stronger. I want to encourage you to look into Boulder Crest Retreat. Please share with your friends and let’s get the word out about this fantastic opportunity for our Wounded Warriors. They deserve to have time to relax and feel good again. Healing begins when you are able to fully relax.

Please share this with everyone you know and let’s help heal our wounded and their families!

Until next time…



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I guess the title says it all… I am gearing up for my blog return.  2014 was a very hard year and please excuse my language but it was a bitch. I don’t normally talk like that but right now that is really the only way to describe it.

In 2014 I moved from my amazing life in Beaufort, SC to Jacksonville, NC ( if you are here let’s be friends!!!). We are so incredibly blessed to have such a beautiful home and land to go with it. Within a week of moving to Jacksonville I found out I was pregnant. This pregnancy quickly ended in a miscarriage. To say we were shocked would be a complete understatement.. because I had my tubes tied 6 years before…. so year it was crazy.

My husband deployed to Japan for an UDP in August. If you asked me, I would tell you that it was the day he left that was the start of the real hell in my life. On August 30,2014 I was headed to Beaufort, SC to hang out with my best friend and her family. An hour from her house I got a phone call from my mom and she informed me that my only sibling, my baby brother, had been killed early that morning around midnight. I completely felt like the wind had been knocked out of me. You always expect your parents to die and you and your siblings to be together… but you never dream of your siblings dying.  That was the beginning of a downfall for me. I started to have panic attacks and could no longer sleep. I finally talked with my doctor and we found some things that helped me to get through the time.

On October 1, 2014 I got a phone call telling me that my husband had almost died and he was in a Philippine hospital with kidney failure. Just when you are starting to get better… just one more thing gets pilled on! That was a whirlwind of trying to make sure things were ready for my husband very early return. My husbands health slowly returned, thank you Jesus, but his body would never fully recover. Fast forward to June 2015…. I am now my husband’s full time care giver. He is having problems with his TBI and he has finally admitted that he does indeed have PTSD. His back is really messed up with crushed discs and spinal cord compression.  He often forgets what you tell him so I have had to become his memory. It is an honor to serve this amazing man who has given so much to our country. He is now with Wounded Warriors BN and I have to say they are absolutely amazing. He is finishing up his treatments and then will be placed on a medical board for retirement.

When I woke up on Jan 1, 2015 I told myself there were a few things that I wanted to make sure that I accomplished this year.

1. I wanted to determine what would happen with this blog.

2. I wanted to make sure that each and ever day I found a blessing no matter what.

3. I wanted to finally commit to my weight loss and get it back on track.

These things I have been doing except the weight loss. I am fighting a mystery illness and I am having to work with doctors to find out that is happening. Goodness me… this is no joke either but I am thankful that I am able to get the help I need.

I am planning on bringing this blog back to life. I want to start making friends with other blogger friends ( so let’s be friends) and learn how to grow my blog and brand. I will start talking about business, around the home such as cleaning and cooking, and decorating and crafts. I hoe that you enjoy this blog and if you don’t please speak up!


Thank you for hanging in there with me… you totally rock!


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We are a few days away from the new year. It is normally a time of getting things organized, trying to lose those last few pesky lbs and save money. I want to take a moment and talk to you real quick about your attitude towards the new year! We are how we believe… will you believe that the new year is a blessing to start a new? Will you start the new year off with a bad attitude? Will you smile on January 1 with a smile on your face blessed to be living in 2014?

Your attitude will have 100% how the new year will be towards you. When we say “ 2014 will suck for me like 2013 did.” We have just spoke life into our new year! Our tongue has a mighty power to speak life and death. We have to be careful the things we put to “death” before it even has a chance to have “life” I want to encourage you on January 1 to try something new!

Start January 1 by saying how amazing it will be! Say how it will be the best year yet! Declare how on January 1, 2014 you are going to live the best year to date and that you and your family are about to be extremely blessed! We have that ability to state these things with our tongue!

You and yoru family are worth it so why not go ahead and just declare it! Prepare your body and mind for this amazing change for 2014! I believe in you and I know that you are about to have the best year of your life!

Happy New Year my friends!



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Guess What!!!! I am going to host a giveaway!!! Do you want to get your hands on theses really yummy Beauto Bursts???? I sure want to make sure you get a chance to try them!! So here is the deal! I am going to go ahead and give you the chance to win it!  IF you are totally lost in the sauce and not sure what I am talking about with Beauty Burst- I want you to click here and read all about them!

Here is the quick run down for them:

They are super yummy! They are like eating candy ( for me it was like eating tootsie rolls!)

They contain all natural collagen that is fantastic for your nails and hair…not to mention your skin!

I want to encourage you to give these a try and I want you to win your first bag! You can also buy them… Oh yes they are online and if you just can not wait to purchase them- buy them here.

Well… without further a due… here is the giveaway!

It is really easy to enter the giveaway! All you have to do is follow the few things below! Good Luck! I sure hope you get the chance to win!  Giveaway starts December 8, 2013 at midnight and ends December 13,2013 at midnight! Make sure you get your friends signed up as well!!!
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* I was compensated with a bag of Beauty Bursts- the review that was given was my own and true to how I felt! This post may contain affiliate links*

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Everyone wants to have beautiful hair! Everyone wants beautiful nails! Everyone wants beautiful skin! Well guess what! You can have it! I got the pleasure to try Beauty Burst- Soft Chews by Neocell. I picked the chocolate mint flavor. I love chocolate mint ( I have a semi obsession with the mint chocolate chip dessert gum) and I could not wait to try this! I have always loved my hair and nails and wanted them to get stronger, longer and shiny!

One day my door bell rang… who was at the door? My beauty burst!!! I was so excited I could not wait! I tore open the bag and tasted my first taste! I was excited because it was yummy! If I had to describe the taste, it would be like a tootsie roll! I was scared because I always think that something will be gross but this was pleasantly surprising!

I will not lie, I had never heard of Beauty Bursts before and I did a little research on it. I saw that it was considered “ Best of Natural Beauty” in Better Nutrition Magazine and “Best Beauty Supplement” in Delicious Living Magazine for the year 2013.  I looked over the information on the website, I was excited to see that chews were going to give me amazing skin by boosting the collagen for my skin. It was able to help my nails and hair. My nails have grown leaps and bounds since trying Beauty Bursts!  I really wanted to encourage you during the winter months, give the Beauty Bursts a try! It is not only a fantastic product but it is very affordable and it is able to be bought online as well!  You can find it here

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I hope that you continue to take care of your bodies this winter… your summer self will love you for it!


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*Disclaimer- I was compensated with free product for my review. My review is 100% my own. This post does contain affiliate links.*

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Soooo I gotta tell you about this amazingly cute video I watched with my babies! The purpose of the video is to help kids see that eating veggies can be fun instead of being scared of tasting them.  The thought is if kids see other kids having fun and eating and enjoying the veggies, the kids will be more apt to eat them themselves!  I was asked to review this and I jumped on the chance! With my family headed into the new healthier lifestyle, I want to make sure they love the veggies I give them.

I got to warn you…. when you watch it you will be in for the most adorable babies ever!!!!!

Let’s face it, our kids are copy cats. They love to do what others do. This is just a duh moment for me.. ha ha I mean It is pretty neat to see how it worked!


My daughter did not think it was really a great idea, she is 11 going on 25. I will admit.. she sat all the way through the segments! She would eat the veggies with youngest one too! So I would think it is safe to say that no matter the age, watching these cuties on the tv eat, makes you want to eat as well! My 5 year old was very scared to eat bell pepper before we watched this. He has now opened up to eating red bell peppers.. I mean after all if a little kid on T.V. can do it.. so can he!

The company recommends that you have a plate of veggies available for the kids to try while they are watching the particular segment about that veggie. We watched the Carrots and Bell Peppers! My kids were not bored watching it and liked it a lot! They had a plate of carrots available and they were munching away! They were a little scared with the bell pepper but soon warmed up to it!

I think this is the perfect gift to give a mama with a toddler or a couple of young babies. They will help from an early age as well. Here are a few things for you to be able to learn more about this here:

You can purchase your own copy here AND see the cute little video about it:

Want to see some other people have said about this DVD?

I encourage you to view the Press Release!

I hope that you will enjoy this movie for your babies as well! Make sure you go and give their facebook page some love as well!


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*This review was compensated with a free copy of Copy-Kids DVD.


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Sooo.. you know how when the weather changes, the holidays are starting to come around and you want to eat the yummy treats that come with the said holidays??? Well… I found this amazing product – Pop It Top It Snicker doodle Popcorn -and I had to tell you about it! It was absolutely AMAZING and SO EASY! I have step by step instructions below showing how easy it was to make, it seriously took less than 10 minutes to pop the popcorn, melt the chocolate ( Oh yes… it has chocolate!) and get it on the baking sheet to cool and harden!

I had 6 kids that day and they were giving me the hungry look ha ha so I thought “ Why not try this right now and see with my 6 biggest critics what they think” Well… to say the least THEY LOVED IT! The salty and sweet combo was fantastic! I love that kind of taste and it was great.

So here is the awesome steps to make this… By the Way…. This would be a fantastic Christmas Gift and it is incredibly affordable!!!


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I opened the package and This is what I had! Popcorn, white chocolate, and yummy Snicker doodle flavor bits!

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Melting the White Chocolate in the microwave ( love my Tupperware!)


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Popcorn with yummy White Chocolate coating!

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Added the Snicker doodle Bits! It was yummy and fantastic!


This makes a fantastic gift for any occasion!





*Hostess Gift

*Teacher Gifts ( beats the usual coffee mugs lol)

*Gifts for neighbors

* Soooo much more!

You can order yours right here.. right now and remember to get a couple for your pantry.. because it is that great you will want to have it on hand!

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