Welcome to the 12 Days of Cookies! Every day from December 1 through December 12 I will post a new cookie recipe! I hope that you enjoy them as much as we do ! These are 12 of our family favorites! I would love to help incorporate your cookie recipes in our 12 days as well! Send me a link and I will get it on the page!

On the  third day of cookies my sweet love gave to me White Chocolate Macadamia Cookies ! Today we are making a super yummy cookie that is a true classic!  Well let’s get cooking!!



2 and 1/2 cups of all purpose flour sifted

1 teaspoon of baking soda

1 teaspoon salt

12 tablespoons ( 1 and 1/2 sticks) unsalted butter at room temp

3/4 cup granulated sugar

1/2 cup light brown sugar

3 tablespoons light corn syrup

2 large eggs

2 teaspoons vanilla extract

2 cups of white chocolate chips

1 cup salted macadamia nuts chopped coarsely



  1. Pre-heat oven to 350 degrees and change racks to the upper and the lower third. Mix the dry ingredients together ( flour, baking soda, and salt) and set aside.
  2. With an electric mixer, beat the butter, sugars, and corn syrup on medium high speed. You want to achieve a light and fluffy look. This can take 3 to 4 minutes. Add each egg one at a time and incorporate fully. Add vanilla just until combined.
  3. Reduce mixer speed to low as you gradually mix in the flour mixture. Do not over mix. Fold in the chocolate chips and macadamia nuts.
  4. **Easy Alert** Drop by the level tablespoon onto an UNGREASED baking sheet.  Space the cookies 2 inches apart and bake until golden. This will take 9 to 11 minutes depending on how hot your oven is.

A big thank you to Real Simple for this classic recipe! You can find their recipe here

I hope you have an amazing time baking! Show me your cookies!


Until next time…


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Welcome to the 12 Days of Cookies! Every day from December 1 through December 12 I will post a new cookie recipe! I hope that you enjoy them as much as we do ! These are 12 of our family favorites! I would love to help incorporate your cookie recipes in our 12 days as well! Send me a link and I will get it on the page!

On the second day of cookies my sweet love gave to me Marshmallow Chocolate Chunk Cookies ! Today we are making a super yummy and a cookie that Santa will LOVE!  This will be the star of any cookie exchange!  Well let’s get this party started!!


1 and 1/2 cup of all purpose flour, sifted

3/4 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon baking powder

1/2 cup ( which is 1 stick) unsalted ( remember the salt!!) butter

24 ounce semisweet chocolate chopped into pieces ( not chips)

1 cup of granulated sugar

3 large eggs

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

1 and 1/2 cups of mini marshmallows



  1. Heat oven to 350 degrees. Line a baking sheet with parchment, please do not grease the pan. In a large bowl whisk together the flour, salt, baking powder, and baking soda. Set this bowl aside and let’s work on wet ingredients.
  2. In a large microwave-safe bowl. Combine the butter and half the chocolate ( about 12 ounces). Microwave on high and stop and stir every 30 seconds until melted and smooth. Let this cool slightly so it will not scramble the eggs. Let’s whisk in sugar, eggs, and vanilla until completely smooth.
  3. Gradually mix both the flour and wet ingredients together. Do not over mix. Fold in the marshmallows and chocolate chunks. Let sit for 15 minutes.
  4. Drop mounds with two spoons. Make each mound about 1 heaping tablespoon each. Place them 2 inches apart.
  5. Bake and rotate halfway during middle of baking. Bake until firm around the edges and cracked on the tops for 12 to 15 minutes. Let cool slightly before transferring to wire racks.

A big thank you to Real Simple for this amazing recipe! This recipe is found here

If you make this please post it on my facebook page! I would love to see them!

Until next time….


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Welcome to the 12 Days of Cookies! Every day from December 1 through December 12 I will post a new cookie recipe! I hope that you enjoy them as much as we do ! These are 12 of our family favorites! I would love to help incorporate your cookie recipes in our 12 days as well! Send me a link and I will get it on the page!

On the first day of cookies my sweet love gave to me Sugar Cookies! Today we are starting with a classic sugar cookie! These are so versatile! You can always make regular sugar cookies by the spoonful or even make fun cut outs to ice!  This recipe from Real Simple calls for the sugar cookie dough to be placed in the fridge for at least 2 hours and up to 3 days. Great recipe for making ahead of time.

Sugar Cookies:


1/2 cup ( 1 stick) of unsalted butter brought to room temp. ( Unsalted helps to control salt)

1/2 cup of granulated sugar

1 large egg

1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

1/2 teaspoon salt

1 and 3/4 a cup of flour, I use all purpose. I would recommend sifting as well.

Decorating sugar and icing- Posted at the end of post


Step 1-  Line a baking sheet with parchment paper. (When you grease the cookie sheet it can make the edges of the cookies a little crispy and brown).  Beat the butter and granulated sugar on medium high ( if using a mixer) until light pale yellow and fluffy. This can take 2 to 3 minutes.  Beat the egg in, then add the vanilla and salt.

Step 2-  Reduce mixer speed to low and gradually add the flour or you will have a total mess to clean! Do not over mix so that the cookie will not be tough. Shake the dough into a 1 inch disk, wrap in plastic wrap and place in the refrigerator for at least 2 hours.

Step 3-  Heat oven to 350 degrees.  Flour a surface and roll the dough to 1/4 inch thick. ( this is for cut out cookies) Make the different cut outs you prefer. Continue until you have filled up the baking sheet. If need be, place the dough back in the fridge while the first batch bakes.

Step 4- Bake and rotate the baking sheet half way through baking. You will want to watch the cookies until the edges turn a light brown. This is the time to pull them out asap! Sugar cookie baking is an art. My mom can not make sugar cookies to save her life… I can make them better than Mrs. Fields! ( Sorry ma’am!)

Transfer the cookies to a wire rack. Please let the cookies cool completely before you ice them.

Here is my favorite cookie icing from Wilton

Thank you to Real Simple for this amazing sugar cookie recipe! You can find their recipe here

Be sure to check back tomorrow to check the new recipe!

Until next time….





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Whew…. the day is almost over. The kids have dispersed and I am sitting with peppermint tea trying to relax.

Today was our first day of homeschooling. Everyone was super excited last night before bed. We all woke up after 7 am which was pretty fantastic! It was nice today to wake up and just relax. To be honest, it felt like a weekend or holiday. Not like our new normal. The kids were quick to dress, eat breakfast and do their first chore.

I was able to sign the kids up for Time4learning.com. This curriculum is pretty great. It was fun to check it out and see how to use the website. Today the kids were able to set up their control journals from flylady.  The kids had a book report due and they did a fantastic job! The kids and I were done before lunch this morning. It was crazy to watch them do their work and learn.

Today was a complete learning curb. We have so much more to learn how to do and how to get into our homeschool groove. Tonight I am starting their assignment journals to help them to become independent on their learning journeys.

If you have ANY advice or tips for our homeschool, please send them our way! We would love to have help with learning how to navigate through this whole new world.

Until next time,



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holiday gift guide

Welcome to the 2015 Holiday Gift Guide! I have brought you 5 gift ideas for Women, Men, Children, and Teens! I hope that you enjoy this as much as I did making the list! If you would like to add something to the list just email me! Sonia (@) confessionsofamiltaryspouse (dot) com Just remove the () from the @ and use a period . instead of the (dot).

Well let’s get with the program here! Here are my top 5 gifts for everyone in your family! Please be aware that there will be affiliate links for some items. This helps me to keep my blog going. Thank you!

Women: Sometimes we just go to the normal and safe but take a look at these fun gifts!
1. My number 1 gift for women this year is Amazon Prime! Seriously this is the best program that I have had in a long time! I love being able to purchase items and have them in two days! Sometimes I will pay the extra $3+ to get one day shipping! Get your FREE Prime account ( Just in time for Christmas!!!) Try Amazon Prime 30-Day Free Trial

2. Women tend to forget to take care of ourselves. It is important to get into a warm bath or shower and just let the day melt away! I love to get in my bath tub and just do nothing but look at the ceiling! I have candles in there and a few sugar skulls sprinkled around ha ha.  There is nothing I love more than Essential Oils in my bath! Lavender is one of my favorites! Get your favorite woman a bottle of Lavender oil and a diffuser and allow her to relax for a while. Trust me Worry Free wife = Easy free life lol!

Oil and Diffuser

3. One of my favorite items to give is candles. They can help someone relax and make a home smell amazing! Jewelry In Candles gives you two gifts in one!  This gift will allow someone to purchase a candle that smells amazing and pick the jewelry they would like to give from : Earrings, Necklace, bracelet, or ring!  Get your gift here

4.Everyone has some kind of tablet. Why not get her a fantastic Amazon Kindle Fire? This will allow her to use the tablet to read her favorite magazines, books, and browse the net. I hope that you will check out this idea: Click Here

5. Women love to make things. Getting crafty helps to draw your attention to something new. This is not a specific item, it is a section. I think anything from the Stamping section would be awesome! Get your favorite woman in your life some crafty items and let them have a little time to relax and create :) Check out these ideas


Men: I know sometimes my man can be a little hard to purchase for so I hope these ideas will give you something to start from!
1.Who even has cable anymore?? Well I mean we have dish but that is another post ha ha! Amazon Fire TV Stick with voice control remote is an awesome gift for that guy on your list who likes to watch TV and sometimes forgets where the remote moved off too! Check it out here
2. I know how it can totally suck when you go to shave your legs and the cold shaving cream just gives you a quick jolt! I could only imagine having to put cold shaving cream on my face. So guys I have this for you Conair HGL1NR/HGL1R Conair Gel and Lather Heating System!  Check yours out here

3. I know most of the guys in my life LOVE tools! That is something I  always try to get for them because they tell me they can never have too many! Apollo Precision Tools Household Tool Kit, 53 Piece seems like this would be a wonderful choice for any guy who is a handy man… or pretends to be! Get yours here

4. If your guy is like mine there is nothing more satisfying than an ice cold beer with a yummy steak dinner and loaded baked potato…. Dang I just made myself hungry! Okay back to beer, My husband loved Mr. Beer Premium Gold Edition Home Brewing Kit by Mr. Beer!  Give your guy a cool gift

5. Being from Texas we know BBQ! My husband is a BBQ King! He loves nothing more than to heat up the grill or the smoker and experiment all weekend long! The Barbecue! Bible was a total life saver for our food budget! It gave amazing recipes for rubs, sauces, and how to cook meat properly! Get your guy an amazing gift that will feed you all year long!

Children: So I wanted to find some things that others may not think of when thinking of these gifts.

1. Every child I know wants a tablet right now and like I did for the women…. The Amazon Kindle Fire is a fantastic choice! They can play games, learn and read books ( my kids love this option!)  Click Here to get yours for only $49.99!!!
2. My kids fell hard for the rubber band craze and with my husband making everything with paracord, they fell on that bandwagon as well! Paracord is easy for kids to braid and make bracelets, key chains or even necklaces! Help your kids get creative this Christmas season!
3. Okay what I am about to propose may not be the coolest thing on the block but it is something we are forgetting to teach our kiddos! I totally think that a sewing kit would do wonders for our kids. In a day and age where kids are constantly on  electronics, they can benefit to learn a lost art! Check out this sewing kit
4.If you are like my family…. your family loves Football! Why  not get your favorite kiddo their favorite NFL shirt? We love these Cowboy’s shirts ( Hey it IS America’s team!) Check it out here

5. My daughter would kill to get a new book each month.. sometimes it is scary… just kidding or am I? Books are another lost art that our children are loosing.  If they want to read a book they look online. There is something great about feeling the paper in your hands, turning a crisp new page and seeing all the awesome pictures that really pull the story together. Check out this children’s book club!


Teens: Okay this one was a little harder for me. I officially have a teenager but she still likes the same things she liked 3 years ago so it is easy to buy for her! Here we go!
1.One of my favorite things as a teen was my polaroid camera! There was something so satisfying to be able to see the pictures right after I took them!  Check out this Polaroid Camera . It is updated and oh so cool!
2.One thing that I do remember and know about my daughter is making things was awesome! I loved making something from scratch. It made me feel so grown up. Check out this natural DIY Lip Balm
3.Something that all teens have in common sleep!  A sleep mask is something that can help keep light out of the face and help them sleep better!  This is a super cute sleep mask and you could get them a really nice pair of jammies!  You are NEVER too old for jammies!
4.I still have an obsession with my nails. I love to create designs and make pretty colors. This is for the girls ( or boys if that is their thing)  Check out this Nail Paint kit!
5.Music has always been therapy for me. Anytime I needed an escape I would put on my boom box ( yes it was old school ha ha) and just listen. Today kids listen to music with their phones. Why not help your teen boys ( or girls ) listen to music with cordless headphones. These are pretty neat and they come in different colors!

Don’t forget to check out Amazon! Right now until December 15th, You can create custom holiday gifts for the special ones in your family!

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Thank you for checking out the Holiday Gift Guide this year! I hope that this helps you to find new gifts for the special people in your life! Please share and help your friends find those unique gifts for their friends as well! Please send your request in either below in the comments or by email and I will add you to our holiday gift guide list!

Until next time,


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holiday gift guide

Confessions of a Military Spouse is hosting a Holiday Gift Guide! Send in your favorite gift! It can be from a Direct Sales company, big box store, etc! I just want to make sure that I have enough presents for all!

No charge to be listed in the Holiday Gift Guide. Please send picture, link and any information you would like for it to sonia (@) confessionsofamilitaryspouse (dot) com

Holiday Gift Guide is coming soon to my blog for you!


Until Next Time:





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If you know my family…. you know they love Minecraft! My kids started to play Minecraft after their uncle and my brother was killed in a car accident in 2014. It was a form of therapy for them to be able to escape what they were feeling in that moment. I know it may not have been the healthiest way for them to cope but it helped for what we needed it to be. I was presented with the new story mode and my kids freaked out! They were so excited for me to review this new game because they love the original game.  I could not wait to get the game and watch the kids play it!
Let me tell you a little about this new game! Minecraft is from the publisher Telltale Games. This game was created by award-winning Telltale Games in partnership with Minecraft creators Mojang.  It is available for these different gaming platforms: PS4, Xbox One, PS3, Xbox 360 and available for download on your IOS/Android devices! It is coming soon for download to Wii U!!  Minecraft Story Mode is an all new narrative drive, episodic game series. This is set in the world of Minecraft but it introduces new characters but keeps some familiar themes. This helps with playing the game, but this is a whole new experience for the Minecrafters or like I call my kiddos- block heads!!! LOL They found it easy to navigate through the different adventures. They loved being able to interact with the characters such as Gabriel the Warriror and having a mission to complete with the quest of finding the Order of the Stone.
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The kids loved that the story was driven through the decisions they made during their journey. How the outcomes would end was 100% decided on how they reacted to the situation presented to them. This new Story Mode has an all star cast such as Patton Oswalt, Brian Posehn, Ashley Jownson, and so much more! This game is going to be entered into my 2015 Gift Guide for Christmas! It is a 100% winner for any and all Minecraft families out there! You will not be disappointed with the game and the new story to follow.
Check out the Minecraft: Story Mode product trailer so you can see how cute this little game is. The video is on Youtube: https://youtu.be/HAnRtMEDrvU
Keep an eye out for my Christmas Gift Guide for 2015! I hope that you will enjoy it as much as I enjoy putting it together!
Until next time,
** All reviews are my honest review of the products. I was not compensated for a good review. I did receive the game free for the review.**



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We have decided to start homeschooling our children. It was not a light decision and we are excited for the new journey. I have begged my husband for years to homeschool my children but my husband was always against it. Finally after a teachers conference he decided that public school was no longer for our family. We currently have a 7th grader, 5th grader and 2nd grader. We are about to embark on something we have had to research. Here are a few of the things we are doing in order to get ready for our homeschool

1. We registered with the state:I filled on November 11 and was approved on November 12th. We are legal and this is the first step we took for the homeschool. We currently live in North Carolina.

2. We found our curriculum! We realized that there are a million different ways to homeschool. I will not lie, I love something that is ready for me to just use. I was feeling a little lost when it came to what we were going to teach our babies. I want to teach them the best. I do not want to let them down. We found Time4Learning. This program seems to have a very good foundation for our family to get started. We have decided that we will supplement a few other things in order to make sure they learn everything they can.

3. We are setting up a classroomMy husband has been pricing laptops for the kids. They currently have laptops at school right now and we know they can take care of them. We have a table set up for now but plan on buying them their own desk for them to use as a school desk. We have started to decorate the walls in order to have a more traditional classroom feel. This is in our spare bedroom where we can “go” to school and then “come” home each day. This is my favorite so far:

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4. We are using community resources!We have taken a family trip to the public library. This place is such a gem! In today’s day and age we sometimes forget these little places are here to help us. My kids had a great time getting to pick out books. My husband and I asked each child to pick a book that was non-fiction. They will be writing a summary ( for cody – 2nd grade), and book reports for Alexis ( 7th grader) and Brandon ( 5th grader).

5. We are learning to go with the flow!Homeschooling is supposed to be fun! Sometimes I can put a lot of pressure on myself to try and justify the reasons and decisions. Really it is because we feel it is the best decision for our family. We joined a co-op for our children to have field trips, meet new homeschool friends, and get out into the community and learn more!

I hope that if you homeschool you can give me some tips, advice, etc! I will keep a weekly update on how homeschooling is going for our family. It will help to keep me accountable but maybe help someone in the future if they wanted to homeschool.

Until next time,


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I think direct sales companies have been complete blessings for military families. Spouses are able to stay home yet still have a booming business! Military spouses are often able to make friends and get their little networks going! Direct sales are not completely easy but 100% worth it!  This year, I want to get a Shop with a Military Spouse organized! All you have to do it fill out the application ( at the end of the post) and we will get you on the list!  I want to make it as easy as possible for you to be able to bring your business to the forefront!


Are you ready to get your business booming??

Are you ready to make a little extra cash for the holidays??

Let’s work together and let’s get this going for you!


I am asking for $10 to have a personalized post. What will you get for the $10??

  • One personalized post with 300-400 words and links back to your website, social media sites, etc.
  • 3-4 post a week for the “Shop with a Military Spouse” on both my Twitter and my Facebook page!
  • Exposure with a broader audience that you would not likely meet before.
  • Pictures for the post with your approval- you can have up to 5 pictures to include!
  • 1 year included in the Shop with a Military Spouse directory 


No need to send any product in unless you would like to host a giveaway!!

Speaking of giveaway, would you like to host a giveaway on my site? I would love to partner with you for this as well!!! All you need to do is click on the “Host giveaway” on the application below. With the giveaway, I will require a picture of the product for giveaway, and you will be responsible to ship the product to the winner within a week time frame! Please do not enter the giveaway unless you can commit to shipping the product.


I really believe that in doing this promotion, we will be able to help everyone achieve higher sales, earn a little bit more money in time for Christmas, and achieve goals for the month of December!


I look forward to working with you!



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Thanksgiving is a great time for friends and family. Gathering everyone together for a great meal is fun, but keeping children happy and engaged for the entire holiday can be difficult. Children need activities to keep them busy and part of the holiday, so you and your guests can enjoy themselves in return.


Here are five Thanksgiving Day activities for kids to keep them happy and occupied the whole day.


  1. Table Crafts
    Every Thanksgiving table has a great centerpiece. Why not have one for the kids table? Cover the table with craft paper or large sheets of white paper. Use small boxes or baskets and fill them with craft supplies: string and beads to make necklaces (beads can be a choking hazard for kids under 3), stamps and stamp pads, colored pencils, crayons, foam shapes and stickers. Let the kids’ imagination run wild and they will keep themselves occupied for hours.


  1. Turkey Hunt
    Think of it as an Easter-egg hunt, but with a Thanksgiving theme. Purchase a bunch of colorful feathers at a craft store and hide them around the yard or house, then let the kids run wild finding them. You can have awards for the winners or have the winner eat first.


  1. Place Card Appreciation
    Being thankful is the reason for the season. Make it easy for your kids to say what they are thankful for by writing it down. Have your kids make place cards for each guest, then write why they are thankful for each guest. Have your guests read them out loud and enjoy the laughs and happiness.


  1. Will Run To Food
    A great family activity is running. Many towns have races on Thanksgiving morning called ‘Turkey Trots.’ Get the whole family involved: Push little ones in strollers and let bigger kids run/walk/skip/ hop their way to the finish. They will work up an appetite for the great feast later.


  1. Corn Husk Challenge
    Hand each kid a few corn ears in husks. Make sure they all have the same amount. Let them race to see who can finish husking first. It is a semi-messy fun-fest that will leave the kids happy and smiling.


These activities will keep kids entertained all holiday long.


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